True Happiness!

Posted: May 24, 2014 in Uncategorized

True Happiness!

Happiness is not a feeling. Happiness is a state of being.

It’s important to understand the difference between happiness and joy. Joy is a feeling. We feel joy when things fit together well, when the sum of the parts is greater than the whole. Happiness is this harmonious fitting together of parts. Joy is the feeling we get when it happens.

Has anyone ever told you that money is the secret of true happiness? What about popularity, position, or fame? Do they really provide pure happiness that everyone longs for?

Try these steps which may bring you far closer to getting truly happy!

Love Yourself. Don’t be too hard on yourself. No one is perfect. Love yourself and love life in all its forms. Be open to accept things in a positive manner.

Be friendly. Be friendly and helpful toward everyone you meet. Being friendly does not mean you have to bring home everyone you meet, but you can always put up a good, warm behavior in front of others. When you give positive vibes, you will attract positive vibes.

Forgive and forget. Don’t let hatred breed and settle inside you. If you forgive you will be able to forget. Forgiving may not be easy but it brings you tremendous peace. Forgive for your sake, if not theirs.

Never argue. Do not enter into an argument for silly things. Nothing is worth fighting over and you cannot change other people. Remember these two rules before picking up a fight. It’s not worth it after all.

Smile. Smiling is infectious. If you make yourself smile for a minute, you are using all kinds of facial muscles, and you can’t help but feel good.

Do, not try. If you can accomplish even the smallest goal, it will pave the way for bigger and better things. With goals accomplished, it sends a message to yourself, that you are a winner, and can do what ever you set your mind to.

Making assumptions can be painful. You are only in your head. You never know what someone else is thinking or what they meant by that comment. Ask questions if you want to be sure.

Be honest. Be honest with yourself and what you want, and what you expect from yourself and others. It is not easy at first. If you know what you really want, then you can make setting your goals easier.

Never, ever, give up! You are unique and special in the entire world. If life knocks you down get back up. Failing is not in getting knocked down, it is in staying down.

I am on twitter @noor_abdul

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